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Geoff Lamb

London, South East, Webcam Sessions

Psychosexual Therapist
I am a psychosexual therapist, with more than thirty years experience. I am registered with UKCP and the Association of Somatic and Integrative Sexologists.

I support individuals and couples in reclaiming their birthright of fulfilling intimate and sexual relationships, which usually means exploring and resolving whatever experiences and learning are getting in the way.

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Webcam Contact £65-75
Email Address
geoff231@mac.com
Contact Number
00447949153431
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Specialities

.Psychosexual Therapy

In this day and age, with more liberal attitudes towards sexuality and with the wealth of information available in education and in the media, you might think that the expression and enjoyment of sex might be a straightforward matter. The fact that you are reading my profile and my experience as a psychosexual therapist suggests otherwise.

I see my work, as a psychosexual therapist, as a matter of supporting clients in reclaiming what is a natural process and arguably their birthright, i.e. satisfying and fulfilling sexual relationships. There are many things which get in the way of this, most especially the influence of our parents and society and I provide a safe non-judgemental space in which these issues can be explored and resolved.

I work with individuals and couples of all ages and orientations about any issues connected with sexual experience and expression.

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Couple Therapy

At a time when we are still brought up to believe in romantic love; the idea that there is one perfect person with whom I will ride away into the sunset and be happy ever after, it is increasingly difficult to sustain long term relationships. If this makes me sound like a cynic, let me assure you that I'm not. I really believe in relationships; fulfilling relationships in which both partners can thrive and grow with mutual connection, intimacy and love. I wouldn't do this work otherwise. However, I also believe that, not only do we bring our own unresolved issues into our relationships, but also our partner is the very person who is going to trigger those issues due to the closeness of the relationship.

Couples bring all sorts of problems to therapy, but often there has been an unspoken agreement, or collusion, between the partners that one partner will supply what the other's parents were unable to give them during their childhood - love acceptance, security etc. Eventually, one or both of the partners will realise the impossibility of this (perhaps they feel burdened by it?) and will find a way of opting out of the unspoken agreement. This will give rise to the familiar issues which couples bring to therapy - lack of sex, affairs, arguments about money, children etc and even sometimes emotional abuse or worse.

In the safe environment of the therapy room, whatever is going on in your relationship can be explored and resolved without blame or judgement (Even though many couples sometimes start off by wanting me to agree with them about how unreasonable their partner is!)

In working with a couple, my aim is to enable each partner to be independent, but choosing to be in intimacy and connection with the other, rather than needing to be with or feeling obliged to be there for the other. This may sound idealistic, but I can assure you that it is possible and leads to a feeling of freedom within your relationship, rather than having to go outside it in order to feel free.

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Free Telephone Consultation

Not sure about seeing a sexuality practitioner? Feeling nervous? Wondering what sessions entail? Why not take me up on a FREE 15 minute telephone consultation? Lets make sure I'm the right practitioner for you! Ease you in gently and create that safety you're looking for. Call me now on 07949 153431....

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